Yesterday I read an article in the newspapers that talked about actual sex parties going on and the article even quoted people who were interviewed about the sex parties they had attended. They freely expressed their thoughts on how they regarded these parties and what they thought of them, and even describing how the parties get on.

These kinds of sex parties, as far as I know, are rather common in the western countries. Not only do single people go for them, sometimes couples go together to such parties which they term as swinging. When I learned of them, I wasn’t surprised because sex is a rather open concept in the west. But when I now realise how sex parties are catching on back here in our country, I am quite surprised. Especially when these parties are attended by the younger generation of our society, some even as young as school-going children!

And what’s scary about it all is that from the article that I read, it seems these sex party-goers are not worried about contracting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) through these acts with multiple partners. And it was mentioned that contraceptives such as condoms were provided during such parties, but many do not use them. The girls prefer to put themselves at risk by using morning after pills rather than insisting the guys use protection. What are they thinking?

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In cases where men are irresponsible as to refuse the use of contraceptives as a measure of safety to prevent sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), is there nothing else that the women can do? Most are likely to think so. But perhaps this is because they are forgetting that women too can use contraceptives to protect themselves from STDs.

There is the female version of the male condom called femidom which works in pretty much the same way as the condoms, except that it is to be worn by women. Not only do femidoms help to prevent unwanted pregnancies, more importantly they provide leverage for women to have safe sex.

There could be many who question whether the use of femidoms are safe and comfortable, and whether the process of putting on the femidom is a mood killer in the bed room. Before we even think about the negativity of using this method of contraception, perhaps one should question the consequences of not using any contraception at all.

To answer the above question of whether the femidom is safe and comfortable for a woman’s use, I found a rather reassuring explanation of how femidom works for women. This paragraph is taken from BritishCondoms.co.uk:

Made from polyurethane, Femidom is a disposable, odourless sheath specially designed to protect women by lining the inside of the vagina. Femidom is pre-lubricated and it warms immediately to your body temperature. It is soft and comfortable to use, and gives you the sensitivity you require during love making. There is an inner ring, inside the sheath, which helps you insert Femidom as quickly and easily as a tampon. It is stronger than latex, odourless, causes no allergic reactions, and, unlike latex, may be used with both oil-based and water-based lubricants. It can be inserted prior to intercourse, is not dependent on the male erection, and does not require immediate withdrawal after ejaculation. With correct and consistent use, Femidom is as effective as other barrier methods and has practically no side effects or risks.

It is hoped that women will not resign to the myth that practising safe sex and preventing STDs is the sole responsibility that lies in men. We too can take control of this and be proactive to do something about it. Be smart and stay healthy!

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