“I’m a millionaire. So who wants to marry my money me?”

I read with amusement in today’s papers about a South Korean woman who is a millionaire (worth some US$18 million or so) who’s looking for a husband. She used the service of a matchmaking agency in her plight to look for a man to marry her. According to the agency, she is too busy with her business to find herself a husband.

So far, some 400 South Korean men have applied to marry her. And according to the agency who filters out the applications, these men range from the average man to the professionals like lawyers and doctors. Only 8 will be shortlisted from the hundreds of hopeful applicants and the bride-to-be will meet these men over the next few months to determine who she will marry.

I sometimes wonder if she will find what she is truly seeking. I’m sure what she wants is a man who loves her as her lifetime companion. But will any of the man really love her for her after that few short months of “courtship”? I’m sure they were attracted by the money in the first place to put in an application to marry the millionaire. Will love prevail in the end?

For her sake, I hope it does. What do you think? Are you optimistic that she will find love?

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I read a recent article that talked about the reasons for divorce amongst couples and found it interesting that couples of different races have different tolerance levels for common reasons causing divorces.

Have a look at the result that was compiled and see if you spot any surprises.

• Indian couples cite in-law inteference as the main reason causing marriage break-ups.
• Infidelity also rank high in Malay and Indian couples as a reason for divorce. It was surprising to read that the Chinese do not find this to be a main reason for divorce! And I’ve always thought otherwise.
• For the Chinese, health and gambling addictions are more prominent reasons for divorces.
• Indians would also take to divorce where there is abuse, but not so much with the Malays and Chinese.
• All three races agree that non-responsibility of a spouse is a cause for divorce.

What do you think of those reasons? You can read the full report of the study here.

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A few days ago I read with disgust as a woman tells her story of how she has a regular day job and by night she works as a sex worker to support her husband and kids as well as her aging parents. And she’s been doing this for 3 years and hopes to do so for another few more years to save up enough money from her earnings as a prostitute.

Whilst she feels nothing wrong with being a sex worker who earns at most RM80 per customer, I do wonder why her husband is totally fine with this! Is he a pimp and therefore pimping his wife as a prostitute? Does he not care about the welfare of his wife, having to sleep with all kinds of men, whom she revealed to be from the age of 17 to 80 years?

If he does not care much about her as his wife, maybe he should think about her as a mother to his kids. You do not simply let the mother of your kids get involved in such work! How will he kids feel knowing that their mother sells her body to support the family and the father does not stop her?

The man of the house could easily pick up another job if he’s not already earning enough to support the family. I don’t think agreeing to the wife being a prostitute is a responsible thing to do.

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Whilst it may seem a harsh thing to say, I think Rihanna should be ashamed that she has decided to get back together with Chris Brown. After what he has done to her, beating her up repeated, she still found it in her to forgive his action because she still loves him very much. No doubt this is a case of love being blind, who could blame a girl in love.

But it is definitely not worth to be with a man who claims to love you but then repeatedly beat you up so bad. Will he ever change his ways? I doubt so. If he did feel sorry and remorseful over his bad behaviour in bashing up the woman he loves, there wouldn’t have been a second or third time.

If a woman keeps forgiving the man she deeply loves for beating her up, indirectly she is giving him the message that it is alright to hit her because she loves him and is willing to forgive him. She may even find her own excuse for his behaviour, believing that she did deserve the beating too.

Any woman, for whatever she has done, does not deserve to be beaten up. For that matter, no one deserves to be beaten up for any action. Hitting out at anyone is a crime, don’t you think?

I urge all women to rethink whether it’s worth while to forgive and continue to be with the man who hits her. As much as you love him, you do not deserve to be treated that way by him. Don’t make up excuses for his bad behaviour, he doesn’t deserve it unless he belongs in a mental institution. Think about it, if a man really loves you, he wouldn’t and couldn’t stand to see you get hurt, much less to be the one to inflict the pain on you. How could someone who love you turn violent against you? Think about it.

I previously wrote a post about not putting up with domestic violence. You can read it here.

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In today’s world, many women have shown their capabilities in the workforce. Many reputable companies employ women as part of their top and middle management team and these women have definitely earned these positions through their hard work to prove themselves. Now that women are amongst the equals with their male counterparts, I find that many men in the management team feel a certain level of resentment towards these women.

This is not as assumption. I’ve seen with my own eyes the many incidences where men back stab their women counterparts although the ladies have done nothing wrong apart from performing at their jobs and being looked up to by others. I take these negative actions by the men as jealousy and envy as women start to dominate the corporate world.

What’s more disturbing than these men at work are the men in the private lives of such women may also tend to feel some resentment for their corporate success. I think there’s some feeling of inferiority complex when their girlfriensd or wives are high ranked executives who make more money than many men, themselves included.

How does a woman in this situation continue to lead a happy life with a man who feels inferior next to her? Anyone has some great insights to share on what to do to help the relationship? This is more pressing than to deal with the pressure of those other men at the same work place, although it would be nice too to have that part of the situation sorted out. But I guess we can’t solve every problem that exists, especially if it’s not our own problem but someone else’s personal issues.

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