Every Woman’s Blog

Whilst it may seem a harsh thing to say, I think Rihanna should be ashamed that she has decided to get back together with Chris Brown. After what he has done to her, beating her up repeated, she still found it in her to forgive his action because she still loves him very much. No doubt this is a case of love being blind, who could blame a girl in love.

But it is definitely not worth to be with a man who claims to love you but then repeatedly beat you up so bad. Will he ever change his ways? I doubt so. If he did feel sorry and remorseful over his bad behaviour in bashing up the woman he loves, there wouldn’t have been a second or third time.

If a woman keeps forgiving the man she deeply loves for beating her up, indirectly she is giving him the message that it is alright to hit her because she loves him and is willing to forgive him. She may even find her own excuse for his behaviour, believing that she did deserve the beating too.

Any woman, for whatever she has done, does not deserve to be beaten up. For that matter, no one deserves to be beaten up for any action. Hitting out at anyone is a crime, don’t you think?

I urge all women to rethink whether it’s worth while to forgive and continue to be with the man who hits her. As much as you love him, you do not deserve to be treated that way by him. Don’t make up excuses for his bad behaviour, he doesn’t deserve it unless he belongs in a mental institution. Think about it, if a man really loves you, he wouldn’t and couldn’t stand to see you get hurt, much less to be the one to inflict the pain on you. How could someone who love you turn violent against you? Think about it.

I previously wrote a post about not putting up with domestic violence. You can read it here.

A year after the leak of Gillian Chung’s scandalous sex photos with Edison Chen, the Hong Kong star appeared in a recent interview to reveal what her life has been like in the last one year. Filled with shame, Gillian said for a long time, she couldn’t bring herself to face others, to have them look at her face, not to mention to look them directly in their eyes.

But a year after that photo leak, Gillian Chung, still filled with remorse and sadness, is working hard to regain her dignity as a person. She said in the interview that she feels so much shame being totally robbed off her personal privacy, saying that she’s bared everything for everyone to see.

It isn’t easy for someone so highly successful and in the limelight to now stoop so low, starting all over again in a career where she had it all. Just a simple act of saying yes to the camera had destroyed her life. Again, I would once again like to repeat that no smart women should ever say yes to being recorded in such private acts.

Is the public forgiving enough to give her the moral support and encouragement to get back on her feet and face the world with the dignity she once had? I feel that we should move on and let her do the same. Give her the space and dignity that she needs and let her rebuild her life.

I do wonder if she will really make a successful comeback in the Hong Kong showbiz or anywhere else for that matter. But if she does, I’m sure she will be a much stronger person not to mention a whole lot wiser as a woman too. Here’s wishing Gillian all the best and stay strong, girl!

I’m a woman, and I’m fickle minded. I would readily admit it anytime. I also get bored pretty fast. That explains why this blog’s template gets changed every now and then! But then again, I’m a woman and all the things I said above, so I’m entitled to change the theme as often as I wish!

How do you like this new look? It looks a little brighter and I actually like the cleaner layout. Previously I’ve always maintained that red shoe with an orchid as a constant logo whichever template I adopt, but this time I decided to go for a complete change and just do away with it and try something new.

I am enjoying this theme for now, and I hope you do too. Till I get bored again…I might just revert to my red heels and orchid the next time I decide to switch the theme!