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	<title>Comments on: Never put up with domestic violence</title>
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	<description>It's all about the woman in you</description>
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		<title>By: NFL</title>
		<link>http://www.everywomansblog.com/never-put-up-with-domestic-violence/comment-page-1/#comment-1624</link>
		<dc:creator>NFL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Aug 2011 13:56:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>They need help to educate tham about business and protecting their livelihoods.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They need help to educate tham about business and protecting their livelihoods.</p>
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		<title>By: City Girl</title>
		<link>http://www.everywomansblog.com/never-put-up-with-domestic-violence/comment-page-1/#comment-320</link>
		<dc:creator>City Girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 15:33:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chris, it&#039;s sad that people take an ignorant approach and tend to &quot;mind our own business&quot;. But sometimes, we don&#039;t really know if the victims want others to interfere, it&#039;s quite a difficult call to make but I figure nothing worse can come from lending some help and support.

Laura, don&#039;t worry about it. The first comment was caught by Akismet by mistake. I do agree with your view about women becoming floor mats. We have a stand and we deserve to be respected.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris, it&#8217;s sad that people take an ignorant approach and tend to &#8220;mind our own business&#8221;. But sometimes, we don&#8217;t really know if the victims want others to interfere, it&#8217;s quite a difficult call to make but I figure nothing worse can come from lending some help and support.</p>
<p>Laura, don&#8217;t worry about it. The first comment was caught by Akismet by mistake. I do agree with your view about women becoming floor mats. We have a stand and we deserve to be respected.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura1318</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura1318</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 12:06:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry about the double posting. I  encountered some problems with my first posting as the system did not show it  after I clicked on the submit button.

I thought it was gone and I posted my second post later. I apologize for spamming your blog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry about the double posting. I  encountered some problems with my first posting as the system did not show it  after I clicked on the submit button.</p>
<p>I thought it was gone and I posted my second post later. I apologize for spamming your blog.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura1318</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura1318</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Nov 2008 10:26:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is more of  a civil case and the police can only accept your report and do nothing unless the woman is  seriously injured.

Do not become a floor mat where you allow him to walk all over you and wipe his dirt on you.

Stand and fight for your rights and let him know where are your boundaries and limits. He will have more respects for you that way than to let him walk all over you.

She should learn to recognize when it is mental,emotional and physical abuse and take the  right steps to stop it .Otherwise , he can  turned into an evil  monster.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is more of  a civil case and the police can only accept your report and do nothing unless the woman is  seriously injured.</p>
<p>Do not become a floor mat where you allow him to walk all over you and wipe his dirt on you.</p>
<p>Stand and fight for your rights and let him know where are your boundaries and limits. He will have more respects for you that way than to let him walk all over you.</p>
<p>She should learn to recognize when it is mental,emotional and physical abuse and take the  right steps to stop it .Otherwise , he can  turned into an evil  monster.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura1318</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura1318</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 13:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is very sad when there is emotional , mental and psychological abuse in a relationship and this may lead to  physical violence.

It  happens  because the women does not stand on their rights  and allowed it to be trampled upon. She should be firm and not allow him to cross those boundaries. Let him know where are your limits and boundaries. In trying to please them , they swallowed their pride and dignity in exchange for their love.

You can make a report to the police but there will not be any effective actions by them unless you are seriously injured. 

The police will advise you to settle with your hubby and they are powerless and cannot do anything about it.  You may even be insulted  by those insensitive policemen. Your case is a civil case and not a criminal case.

If you want to take actions against him , you will need to engage a lawyer who will advise you on what to do.

In Malaysia ,you may contact the All Women&#039;s  Action society at this link
http://www.awam.org.my/enS

For others, they should contact the women&#039;s shelter for help.

Another good link is -
http://www.dearcupid.org/

Type the word &#039;abuse&#039; in the search window. You may find  a lot of info there or just Google that word.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is very sad when there is emotional , mental and psychological abuse in a relationship and this may lead to  physical violence.</p>
<p>It  happens  because the women does not stand on their rights  and allowed it to be trampled upon. She should be firm and not allow him to cross those boundaries. Let him know where are your limits and boundaries. In trying to please them , they swallowed their pride and dignity in exchange for their love.</p>
<p>You can make a report to the police but there will not be any effective actions by them unless you are seriously injured. </p>
<p>The police will advise you to settle with your hubby and they are powerless and cannot do anything about it.  You may even be insulted  by those insensitive policemen. Your case is a civil case and not a criminal case.</p>
<p>If you want to take actions against him , you will need to engage a lawyer who will advise you on what to do.</p>
<p>In Malaysia ,you may contact the All Women&#8217;s  Action society at this link<br />
<a href="http://www.awam.org.my/enS">http://www.awam.org.my/enS</a></p>
<p>For others, they should contact the women&#8217;s shelter for help.</p>
<p>Another good link is -<br />
<a href="http://www.dearcupid.org/">http://www.dearcupid.org/</a></p>
<p>Type the word &#8216;abuse&#8217; in the search window. You may find  a lot of info there or just Google that word.</p>
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