Does a woman who does the chasing appeal more or less to men?
What is your take on this? Generally, the perception of a woman doing the chasing in a courtship is not too acceptable by many. It makes her look “cheap” and desperate. Of course, this is the stereotypes talking and this perception could well be held by the women, not necessarily the men.
There are some men who have rather different needs in a relationship with women. Whilst the stereotypical idea of men being the ultimate bread winner and protector of their women still hold true, there are some men who would like to play a different role in a relationship.
Some men like to be cared for and mothered for all their needs. For men like these, they will certainly find a woman who does the chasing very appealing because such women are most likely the giver rather than the taker in the relationship. He can expect to be pampered and have things done for them.
Besides men who may like to be mothered, I’m sure all men find it flattering to be chased by a woman for a change. Whilst they may enjoy the attention showered upon them, it does make one wonder what he really thinks of the woman. Would they be hooked on the chase simply to enjoy the attention and then leave if they find someone they truly want? Who’s to know?
Having said all that, if you think women who do the chasing are inferior to those who get all the attention, it may not necessarily be so. Check with the guys for their honest opinion and you may find that women who do the chasing end up the winners. This is not to say that the men have the highest regards for these women, but at least men find them more attractive simply because they need not do the chasing!
Good or bad, there’s just no right answer. Whatever works for each couple, right?
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September 8th, 2008
Depends on what you mean by chase after them. I like women who are forward with what they do rather than beat around the bush about whether they like you or not. I don’t like women who stalk you.
As a general rule, most of the women I surround myself with are women who goes with the flow. Whether or not the guy goes after them or they do. They don’t care. They just want to have a good time in good company and at the end of the day, isn’t what what it’s all about?
September 8th, 2008
It depends on how the chase is done. If you wanna chase us men, just be upfront and direct to us about it. Men are not as complicated as women, so there’s no need of cryptic chasing or something of that sense…
September 8th, 2008
If there is mutual attractions or love is reciprocal, it would make the job easier for the men. They will be swept away by the whirlpool of love into a blissful Utopia.
When there is love, everything is just beautiful, you don’t have time to think about other things, for your thoughts will always be about him /her.
When there is an absence of love, you will be cast in a negative light.If the man has no interest, it would be like pouring water into sand.
Women who chase men only offer token resistance and most men would succumb to the wiles of an intelligent woman.
When a woman pursues a man , 90% of the battle is already won.
September 9th, 2008
Edrei, agreed that men can get scared off by women stalkers too. Even if they are pretty ones?
Gallivanter, that’s a tip for the women. No beating around the bush huh. But isn’t there some excitement in the chasing period? Do guys like that as much as the women?
Laura, wow, 90% of the battle won! That’s very high success rate for us, way to go!
September 10th, 2008
I think it’s refreshing for the woman to pursue the man. Why should guys have to do all the work right?
September 10th, 2008
Oh it’s undeniable a guy would enjoy the chase as much as a woman would.
August 16th, 2011
However, it is not. production replicas also needs a lot of hard work.
August 23rd, 2011
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