Comments on: Does a guy mind that his girlfriend is not a virgin? http://www.everywomansblog.com/does-a-guy-mind-that-his-girlfriend-is-not-a-virgin It's all about the woman in you Sat, 11 Feb 2012 02:00:44 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8 hourly 1 By: KS http://www.everywomansblog.com/does-a-guy-mind-that-his-girlfriend-is-not-a-virgin/comment-page-6/#comment-1889 KS Thu, 02 Feb 2012 06:40:21 +0000 http://www.everywomansblog.com/?p=104#comment-1889 @reality bites, Some very strong arguments there against porn use. For me, however, what stopped my porn addiction dead in its tracks was the single realisation of the following: That I was cheating on my future spouse (as what I believe masturbating to be as well). When I realised that, it really, REALLY hurt me knowing that and I started to cry from all the pain and all the guilt I felt. Mind you, I'm male and the last time I cried was...hmm. Have I before? And though watching porn is not nearly as destructive as pre-marital sex, still, on a scale of 1 to 10 of things you don't want to do, it's a 10. Pre-marital sex, a 20. @reality bites,

Some very strong arguments there against porn use.

For me, however, what stopped my porn addiction dead in its tracks was the single realisation of the following:

That I was cheating on my future spouse (as what I believe masturbating to be as well). When I realised that, it really, REALLY hurt me knowing that and I started to cry from all the pain and all the guilt I felt. Mind you, I’m male and the last time I cried was…hmm. Have I before?

And though watching porn is not nearly as destructive as pre-marital sex, still, on a scale of 1 to 10 of things you don’t want to do, it’s a 10. Pre-marital sex, a 20.

]]> By: KS http://www.everywomansblog.com/does-a-guy-mind-that-his-girlfriend-is-not-a-virgin/comment-page-6/#comment-1888 KS Thu, 02 Feb 2012 06:15:50 +0000 http://www.everywomansblog.com/?p=104#comment-1888 sugar, please tell me you can't reproduce (or in your case, spawn). sugar, please tell me you can’t reproduce (or in your case, spawn).

]]> By: reality bites http://www.everywomansblog.com/does-a-guy-mind-that-his-girlfriend-is-not-a-virgin/comment-page-6/#comment-1887 reality bites Tue, 31 Jan 2012 15:36:07 +0000 http://www.everywomansblog.com/?p=104#comment-1887 Are you a bot? ;) Are you a bot? ;)

]]> By: reality bites http://www.everywomansblog.com/does-a-guy-mind-that-his-girlfriend-is-not-a-virgin/comment-page-6/#comment-1886 reality bites Tue, 31 Jan 2012 15:28:42 +0000 http://www.everywomansblog.com/?p=104#comment-1886 QUOTE 4. there’s another thing i’ve experienced myself before. and some of my female friends have too and seem bothered by it. its when their boyfriends see an attractive girl walking and they comment to their girlfriends, “wow she’s pretty!”. or seeing some celeb on tv and saying she’s pretty/sexy. alot of girls dont quite like it i realise. i have a friend who’s dating this guy who will send her pictures of celebs he finds pretty and asks her if she feels the same.. i find it kinda passive-aggressive and a little weird. but what do you think about instances like these? /QUOTE It's another case of comparison. Comparing a woman to someone else is not a sensible thing to do. It's like a veiled threat. It's as if he says, "If you don't measure up, if you don't become a Hollywood-level beauty, I'll dump you for Angelina Jolie." Ha, as if she would be interested in a jerk like him... :D QUOTE
4. there’s another thing i’ve experienced myself before. and some of my female friends have too and seem bothered by it. its when their boyfriends see an attractive girl walking and they comment to their girlfriends, “wow she’s pretty!”. or seeing some celeb on tv and saying she’s pretty/sexy. alot of girls dont quite like it i realise. i have a friend who’s dating this guy who will send her pictures of celebs he finds pretty and asks her if she feels the same.. i find it kinda passive-aggressive and a little weird. but what do you think about instances like these?
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It’s another case of comparison. Comparing a woman to someone else is not a sensible thing to do. It’s like a veiled threat. It’s as if he says, “If you don’t measure up, if you don’t become a Hollywood-level beauty, I’ll dump you for Angelina Jolie.” Ha, as if she would be interested in a jerk like him… :D

]]> By: Joshua Kinstle http://www.everywomansblog.com/does-a-guy-mind-that-his-girlfriend-is-not-a-virgin/comment-page-6/#comment-1885 Joshua Kinstle Tue, 31 Jan 2012 10:59:33 +0000 http://www.everywomansblog.com/?p=104#comment-1885 Fantastic website. Lots of useful info here. I am sending it to several friends ans also sharing in delicious. And of course, thanks for your sweat! Fantastic website. Lots of useful info here. I am sending it to several friends ans also sharing in delicious. And of course, thanks for your sweat!

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