Does a guy mind that his girlfriend is not a virgin?
Many women are stuck in unhappy relationships where they are verbally abused by their partners so much so that they are emotionally shattered and their self confidence affected. It makes one wonder why such women, especially when they are not legally married, stay on in such unhealthy relationships. I’m quite sure there are valid reasons why they are holding on to such relationships. The reasons may not make sense to a third party at all.
A friend of mine was in such a relationship with her boyfriend and often cried herself to sleep. When things got very bad and she needed to talk it out instead of suffering in silence, she would pick up the phone and talk and sob through tears with some close friends. Her family knew nothing of this because she did not want to worry them and see him in a bad light.
After numerous calls, I finally decided to ask her if she ever thought of leaving him and finding someone better who would treat her with respect. She hesitated for just about 3 seconds before saying that she will not end the relationship. I probed further and she revealed to me that she was afraid no one else out there would want her. I told her she’s being silly. After all, she’s an attractive woman who’s got a good heart, beautiful and a bubbly personality. What’s there not to like about a girl like that?
With a sigh, she explained to me is that she was afraid that other men would not want her and look lowly upon her because she is no longer a virgin. I was taken aback with her answer.
Do women these days still feel this way about how they are viewed by men? Does a man really give less points to a woman who has engaged in pre-marital sex? Whether it is morally and religiously right or wrong, that’s another topic altogether. The fact is, it is common these days that couples engage in pre-marital sex and that people tend to go through a few relationships before finding the one they exchange marital vows with. So it would be quite rare (not impossible, just rare) in our society today to find a virgin unless it is a first time relationship.
Anyway, do guys really give lower brownie points to a girl who’s not a virgin? Only the guys will know this. Guys, care to share your thoughts?
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August 2nd, 2010
Honestly, all of you guys, all of you are pussies. I come from an arabic country, and you don’t know what it is to be an arab. And when dating someone who already lost her virginity, it’s like there is no respect for the girl, it’s like, SHE’S OLD SCHOOL, SHE’S USED, SHE GOT FUCKED, SHE HAD A PENIS UP HER VAGINA! Well tell you what, i bet all of you guys were soooo happy, when you didn’t even think about your girlfriends history until she told you what happened. And all of you are jealous, and you only want her virginity. Your relationship stands around her virginity, the only thing you think is THE GIRLS VIRGINITY. So what? Did she enjoy her first? Did she fucked so many times? Did she do a lot of stuff? And if you had a sex with a virgin, and you would want another virgin, would you consider yourself ok? COme on guys, my trick to keep my woman, is to make her feel guilty, just show her whose the man in the relationship. And if you see her ex who fucked her, just fuck your girlfriend in front of him, Tease him, make him fucking jealous, show him whose fucking her now. Be stronger than the outside world. Don’t be a stupid cunt. OMG SHE GOT FUCKED, I WANT A VIRGIN. BOys, if you feel jealous from the fact that she did with another guy, well tell your lady to make a real good dare. Like, if she only had sex at her bed, try it everywhere else you can think of, like couch, park, car, pool, beach, toilet, shower, spa, anywhere. If it’s not enough, let her do something to you, that she never did to anybody else, you would feel more special, ask for anal, if you get lucky, everything will pass, at least you will be the first one to fuck her in the ass. And if your thinking of having sex with someone else, your even worse than the girl who lost her virginity with a dumb dumb. Don’t forget GUYS always attack, they want sex, they seak sex, the only thing they see is sex, they see a girls ass, they imagine how they’re fucking it. YOUR FUCKING GIRLFRIEND IS TELLING YOU : I LOVE YOU, I WANT YOU, I REGRET EVERYTHING WHAT I DID, HE WAS A SHITHOLE, HE DIDN’T TAKE CARE OF ME, YOUR THE ONE FOR ME. And i know the only thing you have in mind is : Why did you fuck him? Why didn’t you wait? What did you see in him? Well imagine you were the first one to fuck her, then you broke up for a stupid reason, and another guy wants to date her, he would be like : YAAAK, SHE LOST HER VIRGINITY. And how would you feel? Dudes your lucky if your girl had sex with a condom, that means she was only fucking rubber, its just a dildo. And when you have sex for the first time, its not like something you’ve imagined, all the best part comes after you had sex for the first couple of times. Just think about it, stop whining like a stupid lady. If you whine, your not a man. It doesnt mean you don’t have feelings. Make her feel that your a man, she will let you do whatever you WANT! When girls are in love, they would do anything.
August 15th, 2010
> YOUR THE ONE FOR ME
Until the next one! Poor self-delusional wanker. You’ve been on this planet for some time, but it does not seem that you will ever learn something.
You are hopeless. You really are.
August 15th, 2010
> she will let you do whatever you WANT
Of course she will, she’s done it with pretty much everyone else and probably is doing it right now behind my back!
Poor loser. Your wife is probably enjoying your father right now.
August 15th, 2010
Shadi your use of swearwords and sexual innuendos to mask your insecurities is useless, if you wanted to appear secure its an epic fail for ya
seriously many high school kids are not as immature as you
you shuldnt bash people that like virgins, i have yet to read a single fact why your (uneducated) opinion should be better than anyone elses
August 19th, 2010
It is not “your” woman, simpleton. She’ll never be any more yours
than she was everybody else’s.
Deny and throw tantrums all you want like a spoilt child, but this is reality and reality, unlike you, is here to stay.
You are into an orgy and do not even know it. That is how CLUELESS you are, buffoon.
WHEN you catch a mortal STD come here and whine and see if we give a fuck. I’ll pray for the poor women whose life you’ll abruptly end, though.
August 14th, 2010
You are a fake Muslim.
August 18th, 2010
It is people like him that give Islam a bad name. Shame on him.
August 20th, 2010
if he is muslim then i am mickey mouse
August 23rd, 2010
i think nobody wants a used girl. She was stupid enough to sleep with any guy before she met me, then she ain’t worth it.
Virgin >>>>>>>>>>>>>> Used hoes
August 27th, 2010
actually thrs an advantage of being with an used chick.. u get to sleep around and not feel guilty about it.. u didnt get the hymen.. at least u get to fuck other women.. thats the best thing u can do to get over with your anxiety!! if she could sleep with more then one man.. so could I!! fuck all those who thinks I’m a bullshitter.. may be u didnt get to deal with a hymen-less vagina!!
September 3rd, 2010
EVERYONE..I have been through the sickest time of my life after i got to know that my girl wasn’t a virgin after many months of OUR relationship.
Its now that i realize that ” If U GOT INTO A RELATIONSHIP BECZ OF PURE LOVE THAN IT DOESN’T REALLY MATTER WHAT HER PAST WAS…………….BUT IF ITS SOLELY BECZ U WANTED TO FUCK N THEN MAYBE FALL IN LOVE THEN LEAVE HER”
I GOT INTO IT, BECZ I LIKED HER N I WANTED TO FALL IN LOVE WITH HER….IF I TRULY LOVE HER THEN HER PAST IS NONE OF MY CONCERN…SEX WILL FOLLOW BUT IT WILL NOT GOVERN MY RELATIONSHP.
September 3rd, 2010
stop probing her..sex and love are two different things. Sex doesn’t really guarantee love n a strong relationship….but Unconditional LOVE guarantees EVERYTHING that you can ask for.
SO people if u really love that person just accept her for what she is and SERIOUSLY ..FUCK her past….make the PRESENT beautiful and FUTURE is yours too. CHEERS!!
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