Comments on: Do women worry about the size of their genital after childbirth? http://www.everywomansblog.com/do-women-worry-about-the-size-of-their-genital-after-childbirth It's all about the woman in you Sat, 11 Feb 2012 02:00:44 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8 hourly 1 By: aura http://www.everywomansblog.com/do-women-worry-about-the-size-of-their-genital-after-childbirth/comment-page-1/#comment-997 aura Sat, 16 Jan 2010 14:09:00 +0000 http://www.everywomansblog.com/?p=219#comment-997 I gave birth to four babies in the space of five years and I cant say it ever made any difference to my size down below. I was lucky in that I did'nt tear or need stitches. Provided that you are comfortable and still have a rewarding love life theres no need to worry, if you dont I'm sure ( and I hope !) theres help out there. I gave birth to four babies in the space of five years and I cant say it ever made any difference to my size down below. I was lucky in that I did’nt tear or need stitches. Provided that you are comfortable and still have a rewarding love life theres no need to worry, if you dont I’m sure ( and I hope !) theres help out there.

]]> By: City Girl http://www.everywomansblog.com/do-women-worry-about-the-size-of-their-genital-after-childbirth/comment-page-1/#comment-729 City Girl Tue, 06 Jan 2009 05:57:49 +0000 http://www.everywomansblog.com/?p=219#comment-729 Imogina, maybe you need to read less between the lines, because whatever you've said that I'm implying, I was not. In any case, life is too short to worry about things that you may not be able to undo, so why be bogged down by it? Might as well enjoy life and whatever makes you happy. Imogina, maybe you need to read less between the lines, because whatever you’ve said that I’m implying, I was not. In any case, life is too short to worry about things that you may not be able to undo, so why be bogged down by it? Might as well enjoy life and whatever makes you happy.

]]> By: Imogina http://www.everywomansblog.com/do-women-worry-about-the-size-of-their-genital-after-childbirth/comment-page-1/#comment-693 Imogina Wed, 24 Dec 2008 14:52:21 +0000 http://www.everywomansblog.com/?p=219#comment-693 Why is it that even when this woman tells you it's her concern, you think it "stems from the perspective" of her spouse? Why can't it be her own legitimate concern that HER sexual experience will be different? It's not as though a "baggier" vagina would only affect the man's experience. I don't understand why almost everything i read about this topic: 1. makes it a male concern 2. suggests women only care because they worry about their husbands and 3. advises women that they won't mind/shouldn't mind because they'll have a baby. Eg "don't spend too much time worrying about this. Enjoy your bundle of joy and life instead!" Sexual experience is a validly important part of female, and it shouldn't be that it is thought ok if this is traded off for a child - as though the latter will make you forget about the loss of sexual fulfilment. Women's concerns about this are legitimate and should be treated as such, rather than fobbed off as male concerns or as something you shouldn't worry about as the gap left in your life will be filled with meaning by a new baby. Women's lives are about more than babies. Why is it that even when this woman tells you it’s her concern, you think it “stems from the perspective” of her spouse?

Why can’t it be her own legitimate concern that HER sexual experience will be different? It’s not as though a “baggier” vagina would only affect the man’s experience.

I don’t understand why almost everything i read about this topic:
1. makes it a male concern
2. suggests women only care because they worry about their husbands
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3. advises women that they won’t mind/shouldn’t mind because they’ll have a baby. Eg “don’t spend too much time worrying about this. Enjoy your bundle of joy and life instead!”

Sexual experience is a validly important part of female, and it shouldn’t be that it is thought ok if this is traded off for a child – as though the latter will make you forget about the loss of sexual fulfilment.

Women’s concerns about this are legitimate and should be treated as such, rather than fobbed off as male concerns or as something you shouldn’t worry about as the gap left in your life will be filled with meaning by a new baby. Women’s lives are about more than babies.

]]> By: City Girl http://www.everywomansblog.com/do-women-worry-about-the-size-of-their-genital-after-childbirth/comment-page-1/#comment-172 City Girl Thu, 13 Nov 2008 02:45:26 +0000 http://www.everywomansblog.com/?p=219#comment-172 CK, how does that work? Never knew that the body size plays a role in it too... LLK, I agree with you, why worry when no one is making a big deal out of it? I salute you with 5 kids! CekikDarah, thanks for dropping by. You have a good day too. Lisa, seriously, don't spend too much time worrying about this. Enjoy your bundle of joy and life instead! :) EKSK, there're lots of information about Kegel exercise, so yes googling it will give you lots of references. CK, how does that work? Never knew that the body size plays a role in it too…

LLK, I agree with you, why worry when no one is making a big deal out of it? I salute you with 5 kids!

CekikDarah, thanks for dropping by. You have a good day too.

Lisa, seriously, don’t spend too much time worrying about this. Enjoy your bundle of joy and life instead! :)

EKSK, there’re lots of information about Kegel exercise, so yes googling it will give you lots of references.

]]> By: eksk http://www.everywomansblog.com/do-women-worry-about-the-size-of-their-genital-after-childbirth/comment-page-1/#comment-165 eksk Wed, 12 Nov 2008 07:27:05 +0000 http://www.everywomansblog.com/?p=219#comment-165 google kegel exercise :) google kegel exercise :)

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